Hello, so i just finished reading an article about the top five regrets of the dying, it is actually a book wrote by a nurse who worked many years in palliative care, where she took care of patients on the last 12 weeks of their lives, it really made me think so i will post the 5 regrets and put my own experience on each one of them .
I'm still in my twenties life is waiting for me, maybe i will have another regrets maybe things will change... I, will change ...
- I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
I'm a little bit worried about this point, i'm not sure about the studies i'm taking, i don't know if i want to be on this field, to spend all my working life in front of a computer ... - I wish I hadn't worked so hard.
For this one i'm quite sure that i wont have this regret, i believe that working hard to earn money to buy things i don't need and then always wanting more and to be dragged on this vicious circle is simply sad. But it doesn't mean that i just sleep at home and wait for opportunities, i work not hard but enough to be sure to succeed in the thins i'm doing . - I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.
I've already regretted not expressing my feelings and since then i always do it . - I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
To be honest there is some persons i regret that i didn't stay in touch with them, but this is life everybody is busy and n°2 is responsible for this one , it is never too late so i hope that i will contact some of them . - I wish that I had let myself be happier.
We always don't let our selfs be happier, we are always not satisfied about our lives or what we posses, and we are pessimist even if we don't admit it, we make mistakes and we don't forgive our selfs ..
I'm still in my twenties life is waiting for me, maybe i will have another regrets maybe things will change... I, will change ...